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Alcohol is perhaps the most widely used drug in our culture when it comes to sexual intercourse. It seems that in the short term, for some casual drinkers, alcohol can be a powerful sexual disinhibitor. So it seems that with alcohol sex becomes easier. We use it as a social lubricant, and some people see their libido altered in a positive way once they have had one or two drinks. Instead of others, they verbalize the opposite.

But what happens when we exceed the "honeymoon" threshold we set between our sexuality and OH? This article will try to show a decalogue of the problems that can be associated between alcohol and sex.

 OH is a potent depressant of the Central Nervous System . Although many people experience some euphoria when under its effects, chronic intake will alter the activity of dopamine in the brain (the main pleasure-related neurotransmitter) and may lower testosterone levels (the main male sex hormone). in men and estrogen (the main female sex hormone) in women. That’s why some chronic drinkers lose interest in sexuality.

You may experience anorgasmia (a feeling of not being able to experience an orgasm), as the production of oxytocin in the brain will be altered, and this is directly related to the orgasmic response. This fact, although it may be implicitly related to the consumption of OH, can also cause anxiety in other subjects as this loss can be experienced in such a traumatic way, that when the next sexual intercourse approaches they will anticipate anorgasmia. in such a way that it can be given again, and if not treated correctly, in some cases chronicle. কিভাবে মাদকাসক্তি কাটিয়ে উঠবেন?

In men , OH blood concentrations of two or three glasses of liquor affect male erection and can lead to delayed ejaculation (Kolodny, Masters, & Johnson, 1983). Between 50 and 75% of alcoholics suffer from sexual dysfunction. 50% feel a decrease in sexual desire, 40% erectile dysfunction, and between 10 and 20% orgasm disorder (Fahrner).

As for women, the same concentration of OH in the blood, reduces vaginal blood flow and slows down the time to reach orgasm, and this is felt at a lower intensity . Increasing this OH concentration will affect vaginal lubrication, as this substance dehydrates the human body. Between 30 and 40% of alcoholic women suffer from sexual arousal disorders and 15% anorgasmia (Mendelson and Mello, 1988).

The alcoholic, as we have seen, may lose interest in sexuality . This lack of interest is sometimes indirect, due to some other sexual dysfunction, such as erectile dysfunction. Many men experience a very traumatic loss of erection, so it is easy for them to start avoiding any situation that could lead to the possibility of having sex.

This is when the so-called execution anxiety sets in.Your partner will misinterpret your partner's declining interest in sex. They often think that it is their fault, that they are no longer attracted to them, or that they may have a lover, and that they should try to rekindle the spark of the past. And this will cause them to look for more sexual contact, increasing the anxiety of execution in the alcoholic and the cell type and / or low self-esteem in their partner when he or she rejects them again. Performance anxiety can also increase OH consumption, with the fantasy of reducing it. But it is the fish that bites its tail.

Another psychosocial problem, more common in women due to a cultural issue, is the emergence of codependency . To minimize the guilt they feel for the consequences of their addiction, they can even indulge their partners' sexual demands when they want to. If this is not done with a professional, all this can lead to a sex aversion disorder, especially if the woman accepts non-normative sexual practices within her value scale. All this does is make the woman more chronic about her addiction, as she will need more OH to cope with another sexual demand.

Alcoholics have serious problems initiating and maintaining intimate relationships .

The result of a study conducted by Miguel Hernández University, with a sample of 1,216 young people between the ages of 14 and 18, showed that 58.9% of adolescents have sex under the effects of OH and do not use it. condom consciously , compared to 35.9% who do not mix sex and OH. Therefore, the risk of unwanted pregnancies or sexually transmitted diseases increases considerably if OH and sex are consumed at the same time.

This substance plays a very important role in sexual assault and rape, as it inhibits self-awareness and the ability to give consent. Chronic consumption can lead to fertility problems in both men and women.